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Cindy Wysocki

Hidden Hazards: Stay-at-Home Parenting in a Committed Intimate Relationship

Updated: Jul 27

In Washington state, being a stay-at-home parent in a committed intimate relationship (CIR) without marriage can present significant risks due to the lack of legal protections afforded to unmarried couples. Here’s why it’s important to understand and address these potential issues:


1. Legal Authority and Decision-Making


If an unmarried partner becomes incapacitated and cannot make legal, medical, or financial decisions, the other partner may lack legal authority to act on their behalf. Without legal documentation like a power of attorney or advance directive for healthcare (living will), the partner may need to seek guardianship or conservatorship through the courts. This process can be both costly and time-consuming.


2. Estate and Social Security Benefits


Washington State does not recognize common law marriage. If your partner passes away without a proper estate plan, you will not automatically inherit their assets. Unlike married couples, you won’t be entitled to Social Security benefits based on your partner’s earnings. While your children will be eligible for these benefits, complexities involving stepchildren and former spouses may reduce the benefits they receive.


3. Financial Support in the Event of a Breakup


Being a stay-at-home parent in an unmarried partnership can also be challenging if the relationship ends. Washington law does not provide the same legal protections for unmarried couples as it does for married couples. For instance, there is no entitlement to spousal maintenance for unmarried stay-at-home parents. In contrast, spousal maintenance in a marriage helps ensure that both parties can maintain a similar standard of living post-divorce, especially if one spouse sacrificed career opportunities for the family.


Taking the Next Steps


If you’re navigating these issues as a stay-at-home parent in an unmarried partnership, it’s crucial to consider these factors carefully. Open and honest discussions with your partner about legal protections and financial planning are essential. For tailored legal advice and support, don’t hesitate to reach out to us. We’re here to help you understand your options and protect your interests.


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